Monday, April 15, 2013

Framing blues








Shading, an act of embracing for cover. My trip to memory lane with these beautiful frames were coincidental and of luck. We were browsing through a local second hand store with my mama, where I laid my eyes on this beautiful Lanvin frames. Several attempts of bargaining and a couple of hesitant urges. I caved in for the best price offered for them. Great pair for the not so friendly face shape ! I can never find sunglasses that suit me. This pair indeed was indeed the opposite of what every functional pair of sunglasses convey. Anonymous? Mysterious? Unapproachable? In fact, the design of the frames reminded me of the 70's where fashion was sought after based of the sexuality of the person. The openness and the extreme flamboyant personality that you could be.

Time to wipe out the old equation and in with the new.

 

The usual situation :
Sunglasses = Never right = Problematic = Situation =  x Too big / Too small / Too Heavy / Too wide / Too Thin = Forget it



Sneaking in History : Lanvin made such beautiful clothes for her daughter Marie-Blanche that they began to attract the attention of a number of wealthy people who requested copies for their own children. Soon, Lanvin was making dresses for their mothers, and some of the most famous names in Europe were included in the clientele of her new boutique on the rue du Faubourg Saint-HonoréParis. 1909, Lanvin joined the Syndicat de la Couture, which marked her formal status as a couturière.

Silk ties





Hermes Silk Pocket Square

Location : Grigons and Orr , North Melbourne

Mood : Needing a kick start to life and feeling in woes of the amount of packing to do.

Funny, a smirk, a sarcastic tone and a grunt . All of these mixed feelings during the weekend delayed my blogging desire to zero. Continuing on from where i left off, I found a rather great read on the history of pocket square's. 

Presenting to you.....drum roll 


ANCIENT EGYPT
Ancient man started simple weaving 35,000 years ago, and 18,000 years ago the bone needle was developed. In the middle of the 4th millennium BCE the first linen fabrics used for ceremonial pocket squares were found at Hierakonpolis. The linen had been colored with a red oxide powder which did not truly dye the linen. Washing would have removed the red color, which supports the theory that these linens were the first ornamental pocket squares. Linen fibers are difficult to dye and were not colorfast in ancient times.
By 2,000 BCE wealthy Egyptians were carrying the first true pocket squares made of bleached white linen. The Kunsthistorisches museum in Vienna has a beautiful limestone stela of Keti and Senet carrying their pocket squares. The stela is from the 11th dynasty, c. 2,000 BCE.
Handkerchiefs in linen's natural color of off-white with a yellow or pearl-grey tinge were also used. Bleaching was accomplished by rubbing wet linen with natron (a mineral found in salt deposits). Then the linen was beaten with a wooden club and rinsed. Silk from China was available in very limited quantities and only the highest ranked nobles had silk handkerchiefs.

GREECE
In classical Greece perfumed cotton handkerchiefs known as a mouth, or perspirator cloth were used by wealthy citizens.

ROME
Around 250 BCE gladiators paraded around the Coliseum in Rome before the start of the day's games. They would stop in front of the emperor's podium and shout: "Ave Caesar, morituri te salutant."("Hail Caesar, they who will die, salute you.") At that point the emperor would have a magistrate drop a handkerchief called an orarium to signal the beginning of the games.
In 271 CE the emperor Aurelian further popularized handkerchiefs by introducing the practice of giving to the Roman people small handkerchiefs made of silk or linen which were waved by the common people as a token of applause at the games. At this time a blatta serica (raw silk dyed purple) pocket square cost 130,000 denarii the equivalent of $800 US dollars in 2006.
By the 4th century CE the Roman clergy were wearing a white linen ceremonial handkerchief (pallium linostinum) over the left arm. Gradually over the next 500 years the pallium linostinum evolved into a strip of silk known as a mappula (from mappa, cloth) that was carried in the left hand by Christian priests. By the 12th century the mappula was known as a maniple and carried over the left arm.
Through the 9th century Italian nobles were carrying handkerchiefs in their left hands. In the 10th century Egyptians were weaving luxurious pocket squares of linen, silk brocade, and tissue thin wool and silk called Khazz.
In the Middle Ages a handkerchief was worn by knights in tournaments as a symbol of a ladies favor.

BIBLICAL TIMES
Acts 19:12 It states: "So that from his body were brought unto the sick handkerchiefs or aprons and the diseases departed from them, and the evil spirits went out of them." The term handkerchiefs is translated from Greek and refers to a thick sweat cloth of linen. Blue symbolized purity and was a popular color at this time for fabrics.
THE RENAISSANCE
During the Renaissance the handkerchief came into general use and was silk, cambric, or woven grass. Handkerchiefs were lavishly embroidered or fringed with lace. In Italy they were called a fazzoletto. If a woman was attracted to a man she would declare her love by drawing her handkerchief across her cheek. (Drawing her handkerchief through her hands meant that she despised the man.)
On a more practical level women who were less than well-endowed would stuff their upper undergarments with handkerchiefs to create a larger bust line. Unfortunately the handkerchiefs tended to shift position as they were not firmly in place resulting in an unintentionally humorous sight.
One legend has it that a Venetian lady showed her lace handkerchief while on a walk which promptly started a new trend among fashionable society.

ENGLAND
King Richard the Second is said to have popularized handkerchiefs in England circa 1390. Heavy embroidery done with a Holbein or Assisi stitch in red or black silk was used, with occasional fringes of silver and gold thread. Although popular in the Tudor and Stuart times when printed limited editions became collectors items, pocket squares lost ground to the fan around 1700. In Victorian era silk pocket squares were hung out of back pockets.

FRANCE
The nobles of France began sporting handkerchiefs in the 14th century. These handkerchiefs were items of great beauty - made of silk, often heavily embroidered and were found in many shapes, including circles and triangles. Often these handkerchiefs were scented as protection from the smells resulting from a lack of regular baths and working toilets.
Legend has it that Marie Antoinette complained to her husband Louis XVI that handkerchiefs were too large to be fashionable. So he ordered in 1785 that handkerchiefs should have lengths equal to their width.

TURKEY
Handkerchiefs or ‘mendil’ were introduced into Ottoman society from Byzantium where they had been used in religious rituals. They were woven from linen or cotton and usually had an embroidered pattern. It was only after 1830 that they become square in shape. These early pocket squares were the forerunners of the popular modern fashion of pocket squares having solid colors and a contrasting color on the edges.

GERMANY
Around 1845 nobles and the wealthy began to use pocket squares in Germany. Cotton, linen, and silk pocket squares were popular.

IRELAND
Ireland has long produced some of the finest linen which has been made into both pocket squares and fine handkerchiefs. An old Irish proverb illustrates their philosophy regarding pocket squares: "Always carry a pocket square to show, and and a handkerchief to blow"

ETYMOLOGY
The earlist written record of the English term "handkerchief"is from 1530, although it may have been used in conversation hundreds of years earlier. The Anglo/French "courchief" was used at least as early as 1223. In Old French "Couvrechief" was derived from "covrir" (to cover) and "chief" (head). A couvrechief, or cuevrechief was used to cover a woman's head. "Kerchifle" originated in Brittany and literally meant an old piece of cloth used at home for cleaning. Sometime between 1200 and 1500 the modern term of handkerchief came into use in England.

THE INVENTION OF THE MODERN BRASSIERE
One evening In 1913 New York socialite Mary Phelps Jacob was putting on a sheer silk evening gown as she eagerly got ready for a dinner party. She had one small problem, whalebones were visible beneath the sheer silk fabric and were poking out of her corset. With the help of her clever French maid she created a brassiere from two silk handkerchiefs and some pink ribbon. Soon thereafter she started to sell her silk handkerchief brassieres but soon lost interest in her business as it took time away from her social life. She sold her patent to the Warner company (no connection to the Warner Bros. movie company) for $1,500. Warner went on to make millions.

FASHION
By the 1900s no fashionable man left home without a pocket squares made of silk, linen, or cotton in his suit jacket's left breast pocket. For a brief time in the 1960s pocket squares were not popular, but these days they are once again firmly in style.
White pocket squares of linen, cotton, and silk are always correct. Yet the confident man will tend to wear silk pocket squares with elegant woven patterns or beautiful prints. Generally, a pocket square should complement a man's tie or shirt and rarely if ever directly match it. When matching a color in your tie, shirt, or jacket it should be a minor, or secondary color. In the early 1940s men did for a short time match their pocket squares and ties. but the world was at war and they were doubtless distracted.
Pocket squares folded with a point are usually pointed away from the heart, although men such as Cary Grant have worn their pocket square pointed in towards their heart. The old rule of not having your pocket square show more than an inch and a half above the pocket is no longer followed. If you have a monogram or label on your pocket square it should not show.
Many men love the look of contrasting textures. For example, a smooth satin silk tie can be contrasted with a linen or handwoven Thai silk pocket square.
Modern pocket squares are usually from 10 to 18 inches square. Pocket squares ares generally made from silk, linen, or cotton fabric. Smooth textured fabrics such as satin silk are generally best made into larger pocket squares as they tend to slip down in the pocket. Rougher textures such as linens and handwoven silk can do very well with medium-sized pocket squares.

CLEANING
Cotton and linen pocket squares can be washed at home or dry-cleaned. The easiest way to keep your silk pocket squares bright and colorful is to dry-clean it at a reliable dry cleaning establishment, one that has experience with fine silk fabric.
However, silk is a protein similar to human hair and can be hand washed with a gentle shampoo, soap or detergent. Synthrapol SP, a mild detergent which has a neutral PH is a good choice. Use lukewarm water and ideally a soft nonakaline water. During the second to last rinse add a tablespoon of clear white vinegar to neutralize traces of alkali. Be careful to rinse out the residue of any soap leftover from previous washings before hand washing, and wash separately. If you use synthrapol SP adding vinegar is not necessary.

DRYING
Hang your pocket square up in the shade to dry. Never, wring your silk dry, or use a dryer.

IRONING
Pocket squares can be ironed on the inside flat area. Be careful not to iron the hand-rolled edges. Set your iron to a low silk setting and to be safe use a press cloth to prevent a glossy shine from developing. For deep wrinkles a gentle steam from a steam iron or steamer should be used before ironing. Also, be very careful when steaming silk as occasionally steamers “spit” water which can cause water spots.

HOW TO JUDGE A POCKET SQUARE
The edges in inexpensive pocket squares are machine hemmed or cheaply hand-rolled with loose irregular stitches. Also the fabric tends to be mass produced with no special characteristics. These pocket squares are often imported from China and found as the house brands for chain department stores.
Midrange pocket squares will have better hand workmanship for their hand-rolled edges and nicer fabrics with interesting patterns. Many famous brand names in large department stores and men's specialty shops will have these pocket squares. When on sale they can be a good buy.
The finest pocket squares will have hand-rolled edges which should be in a tight tube shape with approximately 5 to 6 stitches per inch. As a general rule the stitching should be regularly spaced and mostly hidden. Examples are limited edition multicolored French printed silk pocket squares such as Hermes, or handwoven Thai silk pocket squares, such as Sam Hober's.


http://www.samhober.com/pocketsquarehistory.htm/pocketsquarehistory.htm

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Some smokes my love?

Alessi Headquarters , Omegna Italy 2012

Smoking? Probably the worse habit to form in today's conscious society.
However, the cigarette indeed has been a habit of creatures since the Aztecs.
The cigarette or Sigarro in spanish has an interesting history of branding where
one is enticed by the generic pocket sized box that graphically displays multiple tobacco
companies depending on one's taste.

Whilst on the study excursion with Alessi last year, we were very lucky indeed to 
understand the basics. The workings of each creative product and the importance
of function. As a designer myself, you crucially inspect your choices in your daily life.
When the opportunity came to purchase a piece of Alessi, the ashtray by Archille Castiglioni
immediately waved hello and ended up sitting on my bookshelf today.
Sometime soon, The arco lamp and the Alessi Ashtray will be sitting side by side in our living room 
welcoming the pleasure's of having intense conversations in great company. 


brand:
Alessi
code:
7690/16
dimensions:
h. 7 cm
diameter:
16 cm
year:
1986
packaging:
1 piece in a box

Ashtray in 18/10 stainless steel, mirror polished, with spiral. This design was originally produced in silvered metal by Bacci in Bologna, and was adopted by Achille Castiglioni for Alessi in 1986 with a number of modifications to its shape and size.

http://www.alessi.com/en/2/1268/home-accessories/769016-spirale-ashtray


Monday, April 1, 2013

When one holds the "Mrs"


Malay & Filipino Celebration
Photography by Kameradansa

Traditionally we evolve towards compiling a "we" title as an individual. Humans procreate, expand and eventually duplicate in the short life span that we have. It was indeed a special response when Ajie and I tied the knot last week. Marking a 10 year commitment and 5 year long engagement that could tickle a funny bone if we could replay what life was when we decided to spontaneously track a bonding relationship.

I could simply laugh at the sight of what I would commonly say in the past, denying the "old" me which was portraying this strong young women who was against "sentimental" notions and predicted paths. It was never planned to be very fortunate to engage in such a wonderful friendship and relationship with my life partner at a young age and at the same time, we rocked the core beliefs of our Asian tradition by engaging in a long engagement. This culturally, forms disappointment towards the elders. I think we always try to control the destiny that is ahead of us. Yet once in a while, the wild card appears and before your eyes you have created the garden of Eden for two and the appropriate foundation of what could be the best adventure of your life.

Swearing that this blog would not turn into an emotional Dr Phil coaching blog. I have crossed out what I wrote last night, to conclude that these factors are merely pointers in which one could address when wanting to know the basic etiquette of 1 + 1 .

So, I found that indeed it is not about the time that reads a successful relationship but very basic etiquette's that socially needs to exist for one another.

Communication // Both partners could sing a different tune but if one could compromise to listen and change the channel for one another that is teamwork. Playing the same momentum you would for your best friend and naturally applying it towards the relationship, the recipe for success!

Patience // By virtue, this is the key. Patience to learn, Patience to respect and Patience to love. 


Affection // Adoration towards each other should be the common ground. The tone, the admiration to gently publicize affections by words is effective. Immediately the aura of two bodies change to tune in together.


Generosity // My favorite segment of the equation. There is nothing worse to have a partner who is selfish , there always needs to be the harmony of openly wanting to help each other. 


Surprise // How very disappointing if men think that women do not require date nights. Every relationship whether old or new , should always have room for uncalled or planned dates. This is where you bond in different scenarios and environments. This is where you learn to dislike and like , whether to improve or create a habit. 


tradition is a belief or behavior passed down within a group or society with symbolic meaning or special significance with origins in the past.[1][2] Common examples include holidays or impractical but socially meaningful clothes (like lawyer wigs or military officer spurs), but the idea has also been applied to social norms such as greetings. Traditions can persist and evolve for thousands of years—the word "tradition" itself derives from the Latin tradere or traderer literally meaning to transmit, to hand over, to give for safekeeping. While it is commonly assumed that traditions have ancient history, many traditions have been invented on purpose, whether that be political or cultural, over short periods of time. Certain scholarly fields, such as anthropology and biology, have adapted the term "tradition," defining it more precisely than its conventional use in order to facilitate scholarly discourse.

-Wikipedia-


Thursday, January 10, 2013

The feet



- Italian Soft leather white brogues -

Mood is an emotional state : Hungry .

Effects : Salivating on the on the anticipation of Pizza .

Map this : 

Ladro Gertrude
224 Gertrude Street
03 9415 7575


A beautiful book that sits in my small library collection is all about the art of being a gentlemen. After almost 2 years in hiding, it can finally make a presence in my quest for the art of garments. In the shoe department as we made our way to a lovely quaint dinner catch up with an old friend and her beau tonight. The mood for smart casual usually consist of neutral color schemes and breathable fabric to fit into the frame for a summer's evening.

Often it is said that a man's shoes are his most important clothing possession and funnily enough this is indeed something a man does when looking at a women. The senses of sight begins with the initial attraction of the face , then travels into the outfit and without a doubt we travel down to look on to those toes. A good outfit and good shoes go together. That is your perfect equation!

Admitting my profound love for hunting, A trip down to the local op shop became a lucky streak where these white soft leather brogues became mine. A once loved item belonging to another owner, these shoes did not have a single look of wear on them. Almost left abandoned and untouched.I could not stop rejoicing over the immaculate detail of the punch out design over the tip of the shoe while stroking the soft Italian leather, I was indeed struck by cupid. The lace up came with a heavy cube steel bead giving weight against the delicate structure of the shoe. What a great balance of hommes and femmes.

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Pocket " Poche "




- Comme des Garcon , Emboss Leather Coin Wallet -

Mood is an emotional state : Positive

Noise : Gush / excessive enthusiasm 

Effects : Victory dance & Smiling nausea

Facts: Once upon a time, gentlemen did not have to settle their bills straight away due to holding an account with their makers. Due to the advancement of credit cards we now have the "modern bi-fold wallets" which started in the 1950's. Perfect sized wallet is the pocket size dimension which is widely used till today.


My love for men's wear has been an obsession from a young child. I spend hours pouring over old photographs of my grandpa overlooking the beautiful details he selected for his attire. Always " So Handsome & Dapper". Being a gentlemen to me is about a persona or an affect that one could have. It is an approach to the way we carefully articulate our choices in everything we do. Personally, this very special blog will be my journey into "women hood" over the mannerism spanning over wide fields of etiquette that has been overlooked, forgotten and somehow can be revived through a women's perspective on being that perfect gentlemen . Oozing out sensuality for both sexes. 

Wallets are often an acquired taste, I have had many journeys with how I held my money in the past but particularly I was very fascinated by my best friend Amanda who carried a men's wallet which since then has not left my thoughts. So, through the long aspiring trip through Europe last year. My beautiful fiancee bought me my long awaited "Bottega", feel in love at first sight. The touch and smell, yes weirdly divine. The blue to me represented my femininity and gleefully enjoying the masculine compartmentalization of how I was going to hold my money . Very sexy, as I thought in my head !

Then I ran into this bizarre problem, I just had no where to put my coins? Finally , I had a light conversation with my fiancee " Where do you put your coins? " Responds " In my pocket". Well, unfortunately I do not seem to wear pants all the time. So two thoughts came to mind? I did not have a proper casing for these coins and also could not bear the thought of me jiggling around if I did wear pants.

Pouring over weeks on how I might resolve this minimal problem, I went through a number of key websites to disappointingly finding that the women's selection did not stir me up one bit. They were girly, sparkly and to flowery for little old me. Then, I got bored when suddenly I came across the lovely Mr porter, kudos to bryanboy's instagram updates. There it was "Comme Des Garcon" just handing everything I want in a silver platter. Tossing and turning, I began researching who stocks these beautiful gems in Melbourne.

Thanking my lucky stars that I found them in the "Pocket" pop up store in little Bourke street by chance. That made my day today! Yes this tiny piece of beautiful leather that came in the two choices is now , a beautiful single design. Aesthetic Perfection in my designer point of view, my coins now have a home!